Sexperience
22 11 2007
Points of View Ep.9: I am sure that most of the people who will read this was caught by the title of this entry. I do admit, that even I will read this kind of blog entry because of the title. It’s because of the word “sex”.
Are you one of those who once believed that a baby in a woman’s womb is formed when that woman had “lips to lips” with a man?
I managed to watch a portion of Unang Hirit yesterday morning. They have a portion there called “Boses Ng Masa” where viewers can share their opinions by sending an SMS. Yesterday’s topic was about sex education.
It’s very alarming that there is an unwanted pregnancy of a 12 year old girl, according to the news. She’s not yet even in her teenage years. She has to face a big responsibility, instead of just worrying about her studies. What should we do to lessen, if not eliminate, this problem?
Should sex education already be a part of the curriculum in our schools? If yes, in what level should it be introduced to the students? Or should parents be the first one to enlightened their sons and daughters about sex?
For me, sex is sacred. It is an act being done by two individuals who are in-love with each other. I would say that it is a natural thing for human. That’s why I prefer calling it “to make love” rather than “to have sex”. But still, it would be a matter of choice for us… “Are you ready for the consequences of having sex with your partner?”, “Are you doing it because of love or just because you are really horny?”.
It might really be uneasy talking about sex, but just like I said, it’s natural. It’s like talking about the reproductive system in an elementary class. Some would shout, laugh, or feel uneasy with the topic, but it’s really a part of our human bodies. But I think it would be just fine if sex education be taught to the students. What teachers should really focus on is guiding students in making right decisions about sex - when is the right time to do it, and with whom.
Some countries are much more open about sex compared here in the Philippines. Some would say that Philippines is a conservative country, but why are there a lot of incidents of unwanted pregnancy?
Anyway, just like what others say, you only have sex with the one you love. Whether we admit it or not, there are people who have special feelings for someone with the same sex as them. Is this wrong? If love is a feeling which you naturally felt, how can it be wrong? And with this, is having sex with the same gender wrong? Oh well, this is another topic! Hehe.
elow.. tnx sa comment… hehe kala mo noh.. curios ka bah?..
oi.. binasa ko to hnde dahil sa title! hahahha.. naku.. si neneng magkakabeybi na! tsk tsk.. naku..
ui nga pala.. binasa ko yung mga comment mo sa Nalie entry ko dati.. natuwa ako.. until now tawa pa rin ako ng tawa.. hahah
@batangpaslit
- well, slight. hehehe
@vanny
- hehehe… naku, mabalikan nga rin yang si nalie. hehe. comedy siya eh. hehe
making love is better than making sex, hehe… teka muna, di ba sa grade school pa lang ay may sex education class na? alam ko yan kasi parating separated ang girls at boys nuon kapag sex education na e. ibig bang sabihin e ngayon wala na? huh… mahirap yata yon kasi malakas ang impluwensya ng tv at internet e.
salamat sa pagdaan sa blog ko.
@kengkay
- i’m not sure kung ano meron ngayon. pero nung kami dati eh wala pa. hanggang reproductive system lang… yup, super lakas ng influence ng tv at internet kaya open na talaga ang lahat sa information ngayon. ang dapat talaga eh turuan maging responsable ang mga kabataan to prevent unwanted pregnancies
naalala ko tuloy ung txt ni rob: hehehe…sabi ng magulang aus lang daw na may sex ed wag lang daw bgyan ng homework. haha
kami din eh, hanggang reproductive system lang. sempre ngaung college, part ng ncm 101 ung somehow sex ed….wala ng malisya bwt dun
grabe naman un 12 y/o plng.? ung npanood ko kgbi sa sine totoo eh 14 na..waw….kawawa naman….
tama sinabi ni kengkay, making love is better dan using the word sex.aun….
un lang
@ewanko
- yup! natanggap ko din yung text na yun. hehehe… yup, i also prefer calling it making love.
education is a must
sex education should really be implemented…